Korean Secret to Happiness, Book by Euny Hong
The Korean Secret to Happiness and Success by Euny Hong introduces the Korean concept of nunchi, literally meaning “eye measure,” which is the art of reading the room, understanding others’ feelings, and responding with empathy and awareness.
I recently read Nunchi: The Korean Secret to Happiness and Success and found it truly fascinating—offering a fresh perspective on how simply observing, listening, and understanding others can quietly transform relationships, career growth, and everyday interactions.
Rooted deeply in Korean culture, nunchi is not about manipulation or mind-reading but about keen observation, active listening, and adapting to the needs of the group. Hong explains that nunchi is as essential to success as intelligence or hard work, helping people navigate relationships, build trust, and create harmony in both personal and professional settings.
The book blends cultural insight with practical tips on developing this skill—such as observing before speaking, focusing on non-verbal cues, and putting ego aside to truly connect with others.
By practicing nunchi, one can improve communication, avoid misunderstandings, and foster stronger relationships across cultures. In a fast-paced, individualistic world, Hong presents nunchi as a quiet yet powerful tool for happiness, influence, and meaningful connection, proving that success often depends not only on what you know, but on how well you understand the people around you.
